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December 2, 2010 5:00 pm at 5:00 pm
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I agree with the posters who said that now is not the time to give mekoros, unless the parents specifically ask for them.
B”H I’ve never lost a child but last summer I sat shiva under difficult circumstances. A former classmate called me to be menachem avel and said, “Hashem doesn’t give nisyonos to those who can’t handle them, so you must be a very strong person”. I know she meant well, but frankly at the time I’d have preferred that Hashem consider me a little less strong, if it would’ve meant not experiencing that.