I’m just hoping your words are true and she isn’t abusive. Just because she’s a Heimishe woman doesn’t mean she’s mentally ok.
Are you absolutely positive that the children are happy? Neighbors can be deceived as the kids might be too frightened to reveal that they’re unhappy.
Also, how do you explain what happened to that 3 year old child whom she’s supposedly starved?
I hope these accusations are all false, but if there’s any truth to them, then it’s a big problem which must be taken care of.
P.S. My heart goes out for her that she stayed paralyzed from the birth. This is really sad and I hadn’t heard about it before.