Reply To: Heter In My Back Pocket

I think the larger point is this:

Not every time you CAN do something, doesnt mean you should do it. True, the heter is out there, and can and should be used when necessary. But there is a time and place to say, “no, this is not necessary, and I won’t do it. Even though I can.”

I beleive the technical term is, “kaddish atzmicha, b’muttar loch”