BP Totty
Yes well said. I think the way I would put it is, dont look for a Heter Lchatchila if you can go without the Heter. Heterim should be only after the fact when you either spent the money and cant return it or sell it without a big loss of money (especially on something expensive)…or if you did something and then found out it could be assur then you need a Heter. Looking for a Heter to do something which one can easily go without is Heter shopping and certainly not the proper way a Yorei Shomayim conducts himself.