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Calm down, she didnt say anything against you specifically, dont take it so personally. Geez…
Being that I have no interest in being a speaker, I am not familiar with what Haifagirl is referring to. Like Kapusta pointed out there are some very inspirational female single speakers, who do a lot for the community.
In my own personal experience with being single (in the Frum community) its not so much that you dont count but your opinions are discredited, like somehow because you are single your IQ must have fallen 50 points. The little smirks and the half wave, “uch na, wait till your married…”