the OP is stating a fact – we treat single girls as ‘one of the girls’ and not with the respect accorded to a married woman. Of course, there is a self esteem issue – you try a 24/7 nisayon where you are up for evaluation, judged, pitied, all the time while you have to maintain the i am gorgeous, content, perfect shidduch material not a bit bitter or disillusioned even though i have been doing this for ……umpteen years. Every person should cry in shma koleinu for the pain that these singles go through – it is our tzara.
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