Reply To: Should we de-flaw first?

WIY:Yes,I agree.

But:There is a difference between an ingrained personality trait and a temporary reaction.For example,a Baal Kaas is forever angry at everyone for everything,while someone who OVERREACTS TO ONE SPECIFIC TRIGGER may need to tone down his/her reaction in those particular situations,and the more they control their thought patterns and mindsets,the less upset they will feel,vichoolay,vichoolay.