Reply To: Should we de-flaw first?

I’m not even going to go into the part about being overweight, but regarding a person who is looking to fix his middos: A person can certainly try to fix some negative middos or bad habits before marriage, but in all honesty, marriage is the best middos school in the world, so if a person is, for example, a little selfish, living with and being dependent on another person will help solve that problem.