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“How do people manage to misread me??
(metabolism is not always in one’s control)
Health; Re:”excuse not to try”?If you read my post SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY,you will see that my question is:
Since it often takes time to correct a midah/lose weight…perhaps it isn’t feasible to wait until then to begin dating,or nobody would ever be absolutely “ready”.”
Firstly, I did answer that question – you should be on the proper path before looking for a spouse. Secondly, if you read my post carefully -I didn’t say you used that comment as an excuse, but that it is used for an excuse by many.
“(metabolism is not always in one’s control)”
Almost always is within the person’s control. This is also very often used as an excuse, but again I don’t know if you are using it as an excuse!