Aries- “That is why professionals need to get involved to weed out the unsolicited advisors with the wrong advice!”
Oh, professionals were involved. This person was bashmutzing me way at the begining, when my wife still loved me. The last counsellor we went to, I didn’t like so I didn’t want to go back. I got my wife to agree to go to someone else. Then this person came along and convinced her that if I wouldn’t go to the one I didn’t want to, then I was playing with her and she shouldn’t go to anyone else. The one I didn’t like wasn’t our first counsellor, we had been to a few prior. My point is that even though there are men who abuse their wives, there are women who abuse their husbands. I don’t think it’s only 5% like a poster said. Also, there are many women who cry wolf. Let’s say a woman wants out of the marriage, but they want to win in court, sometimes if they use the abuse card, they gain a lot more than if they didn’t. And unless the man has good representation, they can convince the judge. Some men can’t even afford any representation like Cantoresq posted!