SJS and msseeker: right.
TMB: He is a Rov who also helps with legal aspects. I used the word litigator because of the legal aspects.
Cantoresq: I don’t know what area of divorce you deal with, but many divorces are not as peaceful as you are describing.
Professional: Thank you for supporting my figure, I have heard it from more than one source.
And Health, I’ve heard enough men whining about their terrible wives who put food on the table, raise the children, suffer abuse from their husband until they realize they can’t save the marriage and it’s hurting their children as well, and then these men try to turn their children against their mother and gain custody in order to “win”. It’s your job now to PAY CHILD SUPPORT no matter how unfair life is.
A divorced man – can remarry very easily, and have a happy family. If you fixed whatever went wrong in your first marriage. It is MUCH harder for a divorced woman, they are left with nothing. Even if it was her fault, you can manage. She is suffering much mroe than you are.
So get therapy for whatever issues caused the divorce, and remarry, and stop blaming her for ruining your life.
I am sorry that the rest of the CR has to read this, but this is the truth.