If you are supported by your parents, in laws, Yeshiva, or wife, you are not in a situation where you have to steal, and you have fulfilled the Chazal.”
Please – you know that was not what Hashem commanded. The chiyuv of parnassah is specifically on the man. The Kesubah says nothing whatsoever about a father-in-law, father, yeshivah or any other person, being responsible for supporting a husband so he can sit and learn, and it certainly says the opposite, regarding the wife. It specifies exactly what the husband is chayav to provide for his wife. HE, no one else. One cannot twist that fact merely to suit a personal agenda, though clearly that is what has been done for the last several decades. There is absolutely no reason why a man cannot do both. My father and my brothers all did.