sending them a gift might help them re-consider working for you…try many shadchanim the best is through emailing them/text them…write exactly what you would tell them over the phone then mention you want to speak to them and ask when its convenient to call…sometimes having someone who does have a kesher with them to call for your behalf will work the key is network….one thing youll learn is which shadchanim you want to deal with and which ones have suitable boys for your daughter….IY”H it should go smoothly!!
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