Reply To: pre paying shadchanim

i dont care if you call it a bribe or a payment-im willing to pay it.i was looking at another topic in the CR-boys who learn and go to school at night-thats what we are looking for.if any of you out there in the CR know a smart,ambitious,tall,clean shaven,davens with a minyan ,laid back with a great sense of humor,from a heimish home boy- let me know and we can arrange a payment schedule.can it be there is a serious shortage of this type of boy? there seems to be no shortage of the boy that wants to sit and learn in israel for a year or two.is totally comfortable with the idea of my husband fully supporting him and his prada shoe,hermes tie and belt lifestyle.doesnt mind if my daughter has a closet full of luboutins,because as ive been told repeatedly-sitting and learning in kollel doesnt mean you have to live in poverty-hes just preparing himself for the next few years when he will be in school-he needs those couple of extra years of learning to be in the right place.oh please.