Since AZ didn’t answer, I just got the current Yated; it was not one of the roundtable shadchanim. (Phew….)
AZ, why is 100 reasonable? This could add up. If it plays out the way you see it, it will add up because the girls will get more dates. (And if it’s just on the girls’ side surely no respectable shadchan will give a kickback, or token of his appreciation, to the boys he sets up. Because there is nothing in it for the boys as the boys can get dates easily.)