Reply To: Is this cheap? First date at night by train

okay thanks for all your responses. For clarification purposes, I had several good reasons to say no, train car or plane. But I still found the things I mentioned here quite strange and a bit creepy too, and especially since this was the first time a date has acted in this manner, it made me wonder…

And vanilla I don’t mind admitting that I’ve been married in the past, but what difference does it make in this case if it’s the first or second time around? Do you become cheaper / more generous the 2nd time around? I think rules and etiquette should be the same in these things.