Dunno, in rare cases a big age gap works. Nowadays, it causes more problems than it’s worth, and guys who are older should not specifically be looking at girls so much younger. Yes there are very mature girls, but no 20 year old girl is generally going to be emotionally mature enough for a guy 10 years older (notwith-standing the Steipler or Chazon Is ZT”L, who lived in a very different time than that of today’s youth). Even 4 years AT THIS POINT can be a real issue, and I would have to question the maturity of the BOY.
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