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We arent going to agree because I’ve read your posts and frankly dont agree w you on… well, everything.
All I hear is Shadchanim are overworked underpaid and under appreciated. Do you want to know how I feel about that? If you cant handle the heat, get outta the kitchen!
The amount of Shadchanim that actually are “in it” for the mitzvah are few, the rest do it as a job and treat it as such, treating girls like merchandise and wont hesitate to bad mouth a “competitor” to push their “product”.
Do you think I am over reacting? I’m not. This story is personal.