it’s the way people perceive you and like said previously, people judge based on the way you look without knowing who you really are.
I can’t help how other people are going to perceive me. If they’re going to judge me as being sub-standard because I wear jeans, then that’s *their* problem, not mine. I don’t have to live my life by other people’s standards.
And with regards to shidduchim, if you’re dealing with someone who is going to reject you *solely* because you wear jeans, then you’re better off without such a match. You probably wouldn’t want to be married to someone who is that judgemental, narrow-minded and superficial.
The Wolf