I have a personal Minhag (Not a Chumro) (That I have not seen in any sefer or heard from my Rebbi.) To also touch my lips with the wine from Havdala. Originally. The reason we are following this Minhag is ????? ?????. Showing love and respect for the Mitzvah. But where we go wrong, sometimes, is when one wants to force their personal views or chumros on everyone else. Anything beyond Halachic requirements should not be forced on the public.
