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ok observateen maybe you shouldnt be around such ppl but thats not for everyone. it’s like kiruv not everyone can do it bec they might be influenced. but if youre thrust into it its a different situation. if it’s your brother or your friend it’s different than making a decision to be around such people. it’s wrong to just drop people. it may be hard but you should be there for them. when someone is going through a hard time they need people who care about them. if you cant be there for them and genuinly care for them then maybe you werent such a good friend in the 1st place if that’s what’s makeing it or breaking it. and especially a brother. he’s a brother for life you cant just get rid of him.
such a person should try to connect to them through other things you dont neccessarily need to connect through religion.
so rikki maybe try to find something in common and have a relationship through that.