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observateen sometimes helping is just being there. you dont have to have all the answers and nor do you have to be a therapist. yes it’s painful to watch and not be able to activly help but just being there as a friend is helping even if it doesnt seem that way. as for kiruv there are teenagers in kiruv just look at the kiruv camps. ive been there and some girls are amazing and for some girls yeah its not for them and the girls who were amazing werent neccessarily cool or had all the answers they were genuine and if someone asked a question and they didnt have an answer they tried to get them one they didnt make one up. they were themselves and thats the key to being successful.