So whats everyone’s opinion of daters who go out with 100- 200 people and say “I just didnt feel anything”, or “I dont think its for me” and cant really put out a solid reason”? What would a Gadol tell a person like that? Would a Gadol say- “Wait when the right one will come along, and then you’ll know”?
I know R’ Frand was asked this question by a guy dating a girl. The boy just couldnt commit even though he didnt know the reason why (the boy couldnt find anything negative about the girl). R’ Frand answered “If you want to hear bells, go to a church”. The guy got married to the girl and is very happy.