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January 28, 2011 4:01 am at 4:01 am
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oomis
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Chemistry is that “pull” towards each other. It can be based on looks, on personality, on something that is totally indefinable, but whatever it is, is causes one person to intially be attracted to another. That attraction is superficial, but it still is necessary to at least SOME extent. However, if there is nothing further to sustain the relationship after that initial attraction metamorphoses into familiarity, then it will not continue to flourish. Clicking is a good thing, but there has to be something more substantial there, to make it a real shidduch hagun.