Cut to the chase, Yoyo.
Ask them how much $$$ they are offering. Then ask for 20% more, just to see if they’re serious.
(its the only answer that’s appropriate to the question)
Unless, the talk is along the lines of “you need to start acting like a young adult, becuase sooner than you think, you’ll be in shidduchim”
But real shidduch talk? At 16?
Gimmie a break.