L’toeles….the word that almost wiped me off the map.
Please allow me to answer all 4 queries.
1.DO EVERY SINGLE THING IN YOUR HUMAN POWER TO REVERSE IT.I use the word reverse,because a mistake that doesn’t cause damage just needs to be CORRECTED,no harm done.A mistake that caused many people to think/speak badly of someone must be REVERSED to undo at least some of the damage.
2.YES!You can telephone and personally visit the people you told and beg them to try and remember who they spoke to,as far down the line as it can go.
3.I think it would bother me a lot.I also RESPECT YOU FOR POSTING ABOUT IT.
4.THINK ABOUT IT NON-STOP UNTIL YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART OF HEARTS THAT YOU DID WHATEVER YOU HUMANLY COULD.