Reply To: Can you turn back the clock and undo the damage?

L’toeles can only be to prevent harm to another person. This is why L”H and MSh”R are such serious aveiros. Sometimes one cannot be forgiven for this, because the harm is irreparable. I would be sick with grief if I did this to someone, and never be able to forgive myself. The person involved needs to do EVERYTHING in his/her power to rectify the egregious wrong that was done, knowing they may not be forgiven for it. And let that be a lesson for us all.