Maybe you’re part of the sandwich generation, so you’re remembering actually doing something, when you had a free moment (or lapse in judgment).
From what I hear, the boys live like royalty (ok, the royal stable is probably closer to the truth).
Funny thing is, I’m told that sem girls are expected to help the hostess, bring a gift, entertain the kids, ect.
Try getting that from a boy doin’ his 12 in EY.