since i was a guest by many people i knew the do’s and dont’s.
DO help with kids
DONT do things that will upset the host or hostess
DO strip the beds after sleeping over unless they tell you not to which one family told me not to bec she didnt like the bed with no sheet.
DONT just sit there!
DONT fill up your plate with all the food and not leave for others(that goes for men)
DONT drink all the alcohol(bachurim)
Now that I am a hostess I finally see what was going on behind the scenes and B”H I did all the good that I did. My husband’s friends that come over, some of them are polite and help others just sit there and dont do a thing. One guy was supposed to bring 2 friends with him but bec he was gettting drunk the night before he never showed. I told him he’s not allowed back for a long time since I prepared for him and the other 2 and what he did wasnt right. There are some people that come that I have to tell them to watch their mouths. some people are just so inappropriate i just dont get it.