The Gemara says to be Makdim Shalom L’reiecha
Never sink to a lower level, you do the right thing because that is who you want to be, not for anyone else
It’s hard, but, whenever i’m in the same type of situation, I always need to remind myself A. I cannot judge another because i don’t know whats going through their mind B. I do the right thing because that is who I want to be, not for someone else and despite anyone else
Hatzlucha