daasyochid- I agree with you that we have a different view of the term “kula” than most people on the site, but I don’t think we see exactly eye to eye on this one.
I agree. (Is that a paradox? 🙂 )
If my rov were to tell me he holds of this kula, then I would carry without feeling guilty and even shelo bishaas hadchack.
Then your rov would be agreeing to your use of the terminology.