the yenta- i have the same problem- i have very long, very thick, very curly hair and i dont want to cut it. a sheitel macher (not one who i have used before but who i know and comes VERY highly recommended) told me that she bought for herself a wig cap, and she puts her hair in two ponies, on the bottom of her neck, and then she mushes it up, one on each side, under the cap. i havent had a chance to try it yet, but it works really well she said.
