Wolf – That’s funny -because I don’t remember which sefer I saw it in, my point is less valid than yours. Even if you think I’m lying about seeing it, it’s a least as good as yours which came off the top of your hat!
At least my point is based on logic — it’s logical that a marriage is dissolved on the death of one of the partners.
Part of arguing a point and citing an authority is the ability to produce it so that your disputant can look at it for himself. If you can’t tell me where it is, then how can I look it up? It’s not up to me to search every sefer in existence to find your point.
The Wolf