shlomozalman: You claim Rabbonim ruin marriages and the “solutions” of western society save and make them. OK.
Can you please explain why western society has such a dismal successful marriage rate, while the ways of the “ruining” Rabbonim are so much better?
Hollywood had (could be they still do) the highest percentage of shrinks and those who utilize them, yet their relationship failure rate is about 87%!