“When i go to weddings and i see the very outgoing and sociable young, handsome, frum singer, i always wonder how secure this wife must feel in her marriage, being fine with her husband staying out late every night.. entertaining those crowds of very enthusiastic and beautifully dressed women..”
“i think it would be a challenge for a singer to resist being sucked into the gayvah and other negative middos..”
s2021
Really?! You cannot be serious.
First of all we are talking about FRUM singers. Now you dont have to lecture me about being naive as to what (unfortunately) goes on in the Jewish world because I am (again, unfortunately) well aware. But, we ARE talking about FRUM singers. There are no roadies, no groupies and no mosh pits. There are no woman throwing their (uhem) personal belongings at the Singer while they are singing.
Secondly, I have been to a wide range of wedding Modern to Ultra Yeshivish and never have I seen woman gawking at the Singer, in fact, more often then not the Singer focuses his attention at the Men’s side of the mechitza.
Lastly,
“sociable young, handsome, frum singer”
Do tell who this fellow is, would love to meet him. He dont exist.