We live in Galut. Accept that.
We live in a benevolent and kind country that allows us to have normal jobs and does not unfairly tax us for being Jewish. Instead of the oppressive “Jew tax” which we used to pay in the “old country”, we pay in other ways today. But we still enjoy (some of) the greatest economic, social, and political freedom of our Galut of the last 2000-2400 years.
You don’t own your children; you are a custodian for the One Above. It’s His responsibility to provide, our job to ask (daven).