Reply To: Mod Orth Machmir Shidduchim and Shadchanus

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Why does the OP think that the Modern Orthodox Machmir crowd (is there really such a defined crowd?) pays any more or less for shadchanus than any other crowd?

1. Yes, there is such a crowd- look at a Shidduch questionaire.

2. Simple, because Im familiar with the Yeshivish/Modern Yeshivish/Heimish crowd and they’re known to be ~exceptionally~ generous with Shadchanus, relatively speaking. Im not familiar at all with the Modern Orthodox Machmir crowd’s idea of fair Shachanus.