Reply To: Mod Orth Machmir Shidduchim and Shadchanus

I just located this on the SYAS website:

LAWS OF MATCHMAKING

Q. A common question that is asked to the SYAS office- What is the going rate that one should pay to a matchmaker if they successfully match you with your spouse (regardless if this is a friend, relative or volunteer matchmaker)? The current rate is approximately $1,000 – $2,000 (that includes both sides of the match). The actual amount though should be discussed between the singles and their Rabbi.

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The amount to be paid to the shadchan is based on the customary fee in the area where the shiduch was made. Once the standard fee is agreed upon, the shadchan may not ask for additional compensation to cover special expenses that he may have incurred in arranging the shiduch.

Pischei Teshuvah E.H. 50:16. In many places today, there is no clear custom as to the amount a shadchan receives. If a dispute arises, a rav needs to be consulted.