Reply To: Mod Orth Machmir Shidduchim and Shadchanus

pba, I think you should send flowers if the shadchan is a female, and scotch if the shadchan is a male.

You should put a rag in the mouth of the scotch bottle and light it before throwing it through the window.

Lovely. I hope you’re joking, but its not especially funny.

Is that what you would do to reward your parents’ Shadchan for being a Shituf with Hashem in bringing you into the world?