LAer – just as I wouldn’t diagnose a kid without seeing him, I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss it without seeing him. I hate to tell you how many kids missed out on early intervention because their pediatrician told the parents to chill out. BUT – I do agree that only those in need should get the therapy. (I don’t do labels, I just do therapy)
mbachur – if the mods want to they can send you my email and I would be happy to let you know (after asking a hundred questions) if your kid is normal and hates noise, or is normal and may have some sensory sensitivities. Or find a good OT who can ask the right questions and give good answers. A professional who tells you “not to worry about it” without bothering to hear the whole picture isn’t the right person to ask. My rule of thumb has always been that no matter how mild or severe sensory issues are, the real question is ‘how much or little is it interfering with your/your child’s day?’