mikehall12382:
“maybe, but if that is a case it is a smll minority, not the majority”
Perhaps… but a place with even a small minority who openly disregard and blatantly violate the halacha is far cry from “not harmful at all”.
aries2756: True, in the kesubah the husband guarantees the wife certain things; but if she’s OK being the one making sure she gets those things, what’s the problem?