aries:
“There is no contract where the wife promises the husband anything. Just think about that.”
Unless, of course, she agrees in advance to go to work. Which I would assume is normally the case.
PBA:
“If a couple decides that this is how they want to live, why should anybody criticize them?”
Well said, I couldn’t agree more.
aries:
“Because this is not an option or a choice, this concept is forced on kids and they are brainwashed to believe it is the “ONLY” true frum way to live.”
So then your issue is not with the actual woman working, it is this alleged brainwashing you believe is taking place.
Oh, and do you have the same issue with more modern girls being “forced” into thinking that they must work (so as to have a double income home), and being “brainwashed to believe it is the “ONLY” true way to live”?