wow! that must be very shocking! i went though the same thing! but it happened to my neighbor and she’s still OTD for 3 years now!!! its creepy! and she comes from an amazing fam!
these things just happen! usually when someone isnt happy with who they are and they look for a better life, and than it just gets “better and better” OR SO THEY THINK! of course we know its just getting worse and worse! its really hard to get out of it!
if you want, i can give a a rabbis email address that helps and chats and emails and talks to peeps who r OTD! i think it wud help her!!!