There is a mashal about someone who traveled on a ship and he decided that he wants to have a swimming pool beneath his seat so he starts to brake the floor of the ship, would everybody on the ship say listen I’m not going to look what he’s doing, definitley not because if someone breaks the floor of the boat everybody will drown, Dear brothers and sisters when one of our fellow brother and sisters don’t behave like a Yiddish neshama is supposed to, we must all say to ourselves we are in danger the boat is about to sink, klal yisroel is one, we should always remember whatever we do “Will hashem be happy with that”
Lots of luck