when I say “meaningful”, I mean accurately descriptive. I find that people don’t want to be pinned down on anything for fear of impeding a shidduch. If a girl/boy is quiet, and the other side is looking for someone lively, why is it wrong to share this information? I don’t see why this would be loshon hora, as long as it is said for constructive purposes. In this case, to spare both sides a wasted date.
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