“I think this thread is self explanatory”
Hmm.. well this IS the YWN CR, and we do have several female members who will no doubt be checking to see what we write, so lets be civil.
Really, men are not that complex, and as a result can have 99% of their needs met in a few short steps:
Is her health something she values?
Is her appearance something she attends to?
Is her and your yiddishkeit / middos on the same page?
Is her appetite a healthy one?
Is her self confidence intact?
Say yes to all the above, and you have found a person that is going to make a terrific spouse. All the other things (money, moviestar looks, what sem she did / did not go to) are all details, and not the basis of who she will be 20, 30, 40, 50 years from now.
Oh, and one more thing. Moochie Goochie nail polish is a real plus (but no points deducted if all she wears is pink or french tips)