Lets break this down.
“Is her health something she values?”
AKA men want their woman to WORK OUT.
“Is her appearance something she attends to?”
Whilst most men SAY they dont want someone ‘high maintenance’ they sure do want someone that looks like a million bucks…. all the time.
“Is her and your yiddishkeit / middos on the same page?”
I actually find it ironic that this is only #3 on the list, usually, there is a list and then the OBVIOUS inference that she wants everything you do AKA support you until your dying day.
“Is her appetite a healthy one?”
Nary will you find a girl in Shidduchim, especially in a day and age where if you are a pound over a size 2 you are flicked to the way side, with a healthy appetite.
“Is her self confidence intact?”
Agreed. Confidence looks good on everyone.