“Anyone who does not send response cards is looking for financial disaster.”
none of my husband’s 1st cousins (& each one has 10+ children ka’h) send response cards; they’re Chassidishe/Rebbishe. there are always seats, always enough food. I personally don’t know how they do it.
my husband wanted no response cards for all 4 of our children’s weddings… noooo way!! we had response cards!! .. with pretty poor percentages of responses, btw; I had to make alott of calls! :/