Its really all about how deep you want your relationship to be before getting married.
Personally, I knew my husband for 3 years before we got married, and I thought that was rushing it 🙂
Sometimes, people need more time. They need to see if the other person’s annoyances will bother them in a few weeks or if it truly is trivial. Or if the parts that they thought were so amazing filter down to show. Or if some behaviors shown were possibly abusive.
You will never know the person you marry 100% before you get married. I wanted to know as much as I could.