As soon as u decide something is too short THROW IT OUT CUZ IF YOU WAIT U MAY NEVER HAVE THAT FEELING AGAIN!!!! It definitely is hard and pretty scary but let me tell u its the most empowering thing. And seeallsides – I never thought of it like that!!!
And just another thought – we all daven for mashiach to come in every single shmone esrei… but if he came today would we be embarassed to see him in our skirts?? Will we even be from the good people who will be alive to greet him?????